Engagement, Marriage, and Family Resources

Find external resources for engagement, marriages, and families.

Diocesan ministries and resources can be found on the Marriage and Family Ministry Web Page.

Dating, Discernment, & Engagement

Discerning Marriage

Married Couples

Struggling Marriage

Catholic Charities Counseling ccfwsb.org/counseling
Many parish priests in our diocese tell us that their greatest need is for trustworthy professional counselors to whom they can refer parishioners, school children, and families. Without these vital services, a marriage might end in divorce or a student might face expulsion from school.

Third Optionthirdoptionfw.wordpress.com
Aims to build better marriages by promoting growth and reconciliation. Each session in the 14-session cycle covers a comprehensive set of tools that couples can use to develop better levels of understanding, conflict-resolution, and trust while also learning more effective communication skills.  Although this is not a counseling program, the Third Option provides a confidential peer-to-peer ministry in which couples can learn from trained volunteers who have overcome marital difficulties themselves.

Retrouvaillehelpourmarriage.org
Is an independent, Catholic program designed to help, heal and renew married couples who are drifting or who have drifted apart. The word “retrouvaille” simply means “rediscovery.” The Retrouvaille program offers you the chance to rediscover yourself, your spouse and a loving relationship in your marriage.

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Marriage Enrichment

Enriching Your Marriage (For Your Marriage)foryourmarriage.org/married-life/enriching-your-marriage
Every relationship needs attention and care to thrive, and marriage is no different. Couples sometimes run on autopilot for months or even years, caught up in the daily tasks of creating a home together, working, caring for children, and serving others. The good news is that there are a million and one ways to nurture your relationship: intentional couple-time, learning more about your mission as a married couple, growing in communication skills, etc. No effort is wasted; your love is worth investing in! Find resources at For Your Marriage.

Better Together – Dynamic Catholic
Free resources from Dynamic Catholic, including a marital inventory, weekly emails, and video series with couple’s guides.

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Pornography Addiction

RECLAIM: God’s Plan for Sexual Healthreclaimsexualhealth.com
An anonymous, online Catholic recovery program from pornography, masturbation and other sexual compulsions, based on brain science and the theology of the body. Visit their website at reclaimsexualhealth.com

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Addiction Recovery

Catholics in Recoverycatholicinrecovery.com
A ministry offering hope and healing for those recovering from addictions, compulsions, and unhealthy attachments, and for their loved ones. Members meet regularly at Our Lady of Good Hope, Fort Wayne; contact [email protected] for latest updates. Virtual meetings are also available.

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Infertility

Physicians providing NaProTechnology in the Diocese

Hope for the Journey
Hope for the Journey is a ministry of the Diocese of Fort Wayne-South Bend that offers spiritual, emotional and practical support rooted in the Catholic faith for couples who are experiencing infertility or secondary infertility.

Support for Parents and Grandparents

Technology in the Home

The Messy Family Guide to Technology from the Messy Family Projectlink
Free resource from the Messy Family Project to help you take a family inventory, create a plan with your spouse, and learn how to teach your kids to use technology with virtue.

Raising a Family in the Digital Age: A Technology Guide for Parents – https://eppc.org/parentsguide/
This guide for parents and other adults working with and mentoring children (such as pastors, teachers, coaches, etc.) offers both suggestions on boundaries to put in place around technology and how to have conversations with children about developing healthy habits with technology.

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Grandparents

Grandparents: Keepers of the Family’s Stories – link

Grandparents: Models, Mentors and Memory-Makers – link

A Living Legacy: The Role of Grandparents (podcast) – link

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Adoption Services in the Diocese of Fort Wayne-South Bend

Catholic Charities Adoption Planningccfwsb.org/service/helping-save-lives#prolife
Is a licensed child placing agency in the state of Indiana. Additionally, we are experts in providing pro-life professional counseling as well as helping parents who chose adoption as an option design their plan and guide them through a legal adoption process.

Resources – Springs of Love 

Adoption: Prayer and Educational Resources | USCCB 

Adoption and Foster Care – For Your Marriage 

The Many Dimensions of Openness to Life – For Your Marriage 

An Adoption Love Story – For Your Marriage 

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Beginning & End of Life Considerations

In Vitro Fertilization
Information on Advanced Directives in Indiana

A Catholic Guide to an Advanced Directiveview here.
This document, produced by the Indiana Catholic Conference and approved by the Indiana Bishops, provides information on the Catholic Church’s teaching, and advance directives

Looking for Help With…

Domestic Violence

Catholics for Family Peacecatholicsforfamilypeace.org
Provides resources, education, research, and prayers for families, clergy, and lay leaders.

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Addiction Recovery
Divorce & Annulment

Surviving Divorce ProgramLink
Features twelve video presentations that cover topics such as shock and grief, anger and forgiveness, money issues, dealing with children and a former spouse, and annulment and remarriage. This program is for the newly separated and divorced and for those still struggling with issues many years later.   It is based on the teachings of the Catholic Church and is open to anyone who needs comfort, counsel, and clarity after divorce.
Many diocesan parishes also offer independent support groups; visit Divorce Ministry – The Catholic Diocese of Fort Wayne-South Bend (diocesefwsb.org) for more information.

Diocese of Fort Wayne-South Bend Tribunal & Marriage Nullity Process

Annulment | USCCB 

Infertility